How can I change my additude?

Surround yourself with positive people. Whether positively or negatively, the people you spend time with affect you and you affect them. Spend time with people who lift your spirits, not people who bring you down.

Make the most of your life. We’ve all heard that before, but each new day provides a new opportunity to make positive changes. Having a good attitude makes it easier to notice opportunity and gives you the power to realize your dreams and fulfill your goals.

Self talk. If attitude is a state of mind, then the messages you allow to come in and out of your stream of consciousness surely affect your overall attitude about your life. Self talk and your state of mind determine your well-being. Dump negative baggage that pulls you down. Dwelling on yesterday or what could have been will do nothing for you but leave you stuck in an old story. Live in today.

Mood follows action. Sometimes, you can’t just “think’ your way into a positive attitude – you have to take action to spark a different chain of events. Do the behaviors that make you feel good and that have the ability to move you in a different direction.

Set your life trajectory - your life path. Life can either happen to you, or you can be motivated by what life throws your way. You can’t set trajectories for yourself if you don’t take the time to determine what you want. Who, where, and what do you want to be? What would you like to accomplish, and in what timeframe? Chart your course.

Identify and commit to a daily practice. Daily practices help ground you as an individual. Some examples of daily practices include: taking time for a quiet breakfast, exercising, meditating, reading, etc. Pick one that suits you and commit to it everyday.

Face the world. Live your life with a spirit of generosity, gratitude, and forgiveness toward other people. It will come back to you two fold.

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Pamela L. Patterson, M.S.
Associate Dean of Students